We have no idea what’s going to happen next.
Most likely, the sun will set tonight and rise tomorrow.
You’ll drive the same route to the grocery store as usual.
And in the next day (week, lifetime), you’ll make some decisions you’re ultimately happy about—and others you’re not.
But the truth is, we’re not really in control of very much on this planet or in this lifetime.
So when it comes to making decisions, the best we can do is make a good guess.
Should I order the tacos or the salad?
Should I price my offer at $1000 or $3000?
Should I break up with my partner or stick it out?
I don’t know.
The best, most universal advice I can give you:
Love your reasons.
It’s not about the choice.
It’s about the state from which the choice was made.
Choosing the salad because you have a story that you’re too fat and should eat that even though you really don’t want to?
Not a reason I’d love.
Choosing the salad because you’re excited to feel healthier in your body and pretty sure it’ll help you get there?
Sounds decent to me.
Choosing the tacos because you love tacos?
Also great.
I can’t tell you what reasons you should love.
But you’re the one who has to love them.
What if it’s not so much about the outcome of any choice, but about how you came to it?
That’s a recipe for no regrets, if you ask me.
Reasonably yours,
Rachel
PS – This is the logic behind the Decision Grid, one of my favorite tools for making a tough call. It helps me slow down, clarify what’s driving me, and choose the reasons I love most. Let me know if you want the template.
PPS – If you’ve got a decision weighing on you—or a sense that you’re stuck somewhere you don’t want to be—I can help. Coaching gives you space to hear your deeper knowing and move forward from clarity, not confusion. If that sounds good, reply and let’s book a free consult to explore whether we’re a fit.
